Eat, Pray, Love

To attend a wedding invitation, for me, I must be really close to the bride/bridegroom or otherwise, it doesn't mean anything to me. I might be high on magic mushroom when I write this so i apologize for any offended feelings. Most of us malays have a fear/culture of thinking that "if we didn't attend our friends/relatives wedding ceremony, they won't attend our's" well i think that's pure crap.

And what is the importance of invitation card anyway? I know i need them as a map and it really helps to remind me about the date and all but that's just it. If you feel like cherishing the couple and they deserve to be celebrated or just to pay respect to their invitation, doesn't matter if they invite you through facebook or SMS or with fancy invitation card, you should just come. Or, in any way u feel like your presence would be really appreciated then get your lazy ass to their wedding ceremony. A fancy invitation card doesn't represent people honesty and hope for you to come. They're just some paper with malay/arabic words printed in it. nothing more. yeah and some prayer words. don't get me wrong I respect every pray to god but I don't think you people even read it before you throw it away.

I'm not really into social event kind of guy. I hate to be around people I don't really know. I'm not blaming society when I'm just being a lazy fuck who didn't come to his friends wedding day. If you're a mate then you deserve my respect. You don't have to make a big fancy invitation card to invite me surely I still come to your big day (subject to my working hour, still) if I got the chance to. I've failed to attend some wedding ceremony and I still regretted it because you guys are my friends and a friend deserve my respect. Wedding ceremony is about a day you announce to the people who didn't know that you're married to your partner. It's about chance for families, relatives, friends, colleagues and other people you invited to share your happiness on your big day. You don't want people who tend to complaint about the food taste or talk bad about your wedding day to come.

This is just a thought of mine. A personal opinion that might change as I grew older and perhaps, wiser. Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe it's about acceptance to the society doesn't matter how bad they treated us so we just have to invite them all. Maybe I'm just being fucked up for thinking too much.

Hasbulah, Zatie and Eddie, Aji, Caduk and Ako, I definitely want to come to your wedding. I will if I got the chance to.

and here's your good old wish guys. Selamat Pengantin Baru dan selamat berbahagia dengan pasangan :)

p/s : my English sucks. but you know what I mean right?